Convenience

I'm  seriously irritated.  I use to work for this particular person and I wouldn't say we are "friends". I do not hear from her, see her in public with no acknowledgement, not that I want any, she's nosey and rubs in everyones face how well she's doing, which means she married well and also cheats. Well once in a blue moon when she needs horse advice or knowledge she sends me a message.  Yes she uses people but otherwise doesn't acknowledge their existence.  She's done it to me a couple times because she knows I am educated extremely well in horse care. She messaged me the other day, I didn't answer her for several days, I actually forgot about it. Instead of giving her "free" advice I advised she consult her veterinarian.  This is going to be my "go to" for all her questions.  If she's doing so damn well let her pay for her answers like everyone else. I don't tolerate being used. I will help my real friends all day long but users can kiss my ass.